INTRODUCTION Coming from a 'his and hers' perspective, this book covers the most important information that any new spouse should know, from family life to deployment and training, and all that's in between; such as benefits, promotions, and living arrangements. As a couple who recently transitioned out of Military life, (specifically the Army) we decided to write about our experience. After living an entirely different lifestyle in the Army for three years, coming back to the civilian world wasn't easy. Small things that we hadn't noticed before the military are now newfound pet peeves. This