Jim has lived the conflict of "same sex attraction" and religion, spending a lifetime wrestling the traditions of fundamentalist Christianity, seeking freedom and truth. In an effort to become "normal" he actively participated in "reparative" therapy becoming a leader and example of ex-gay ministries despite their ineffectiveness. After two marriages and the complete collapse of everything around him, Jim has discovered that which eluded him for so long - self acceptance, peace and love beyond the walls of religious dogma.