Michael Makai, author of the Amazon best-seller, Domination & Submission: The BDSM Relationship Handbook. Michael has been a lifestyle Dominant for 37 years, a behind-the-scenes mentor and educator on BDSM and D/s for decades, and has been active in dozens of fetish lifestyle organizations in Europe and the U.S. Michael believes that the key to understanding the lifestyle and the people in it is to be able to recognize the very distinct differences between BDSM, which is something you do, and D/s, which is a relationship dynamic. Michael is a combat veteran and a retired senior Army noncommiss...