Nicole C. Kear is a parenting writer who contributes essays and articles to "Parents, American Baby, " Babble and Salon, among others. A native of New York, she received a BA from Yale, a MA from Columbia, and a red nose from the San Francisco School of Circus Arts. She lives in Brooklyn with her husband, three children and a morbidly obese goldfish. "Now I See You" is her debut work.