From the early eighties to the late nineties, I moderated workshops with some of this country's top PhDs and MDs that specialized in marriage and relationship counseling. Back then, I targeted African Americans partly because I felt that population was struggling more in the family and with relationship breakdowns. The workshop was entitled "Black Men, Black Women How to Resolve Conflict." For the most part, it was the women complaining about the behavior of men and men providing a rationale for their irresponsible behavior toward women. Now, things have changed; it is not only African America...