CLAUDIA DEY is a novelist (Stunt), playwright (Trout Stanley) and columnist (The Globe and Mail s Group Therapy and Coupling). She also wrote the sex column for Toro magazine. She then decided the column was not enough. Prospective pilots needed a bookfield guide, in fact. So here it is. Visit Claudia Dey online at Aa href="http: //www.claudiadey.com">claudiadey.com" or on Twitter @claudiadey.