Author's Statement "My concerns for the past 20 years have been about human relationships and their importance, and the problem of self-love often trumping our love of others. "Many years of thought and a decade of researching and writing resulted in my book, To Find the Way of Love. "To find the way of love" is to re-explore and re-examine the purpose of our existence. "Personal background that informed my thinking and writing includes past vocations as a Navy fighter pilot and an executive in hospital building and administration; marriage, divorce, and widowing; fatherhood and grand-fatherho...