When I mentioned to my brother that I was about to finish this book, the first comment he made was something to the effect of, "What makes you an expert?!. You only have your own experiences to write about..." He was more or less right of course. However... I have been a direct caregiver to four disabled or impaired people over the last twenty years. I have been a paid caregiver to one for most of that time, my wife became disabled fourteen years ago, her mother seventeen years ago, and my mother, now passed, about ten years ago. Now in truth, while I did no actual caregiving in-person to my o...