Twenty years as a Marriage and Family Therapist has given Arla Caraboolad a unique vicarious vantage point from which to view sex and love. Sex doesn't have to be over or avoided because of aging or illness like Diabetes. Men don't have to have performance anxiety, because they are more able to have a relationship than when they are younger. That's what women have always wanted. Being over 50 herself, her husband seven years older, and a 14-year Diabetic, has also given valuable experience. Even so, she says, "Sex is better in many ways!"