Chandrama Lynne Anderson, MA, MFT is a licensed psychotherapist in Palo Alto, California, where she specializes in couples therapy and grief counseling. She is the author of "No U-Turn at Mercy Street: A Memoir and Resource Guide for Grieving Parents," and is a national speaker on the topics of Couples, Grief, and Connect2(r) Personality Mapping. Prior to becoming a therapist, Chandrama worked in high tech at Stanford University and in Silicon Valley. She lives in Menlo Park with her husband. Her Couples blog can be found at www.connect2.us.com.