What Nobody Taught You About Feeling Your Feelings

ISBN-13: 9783565196319 / Angielski / Miękka / 244 str.

Selene Rothwell

Opis

You're told to name your emotions, sit with discomfort, process feelings instead of avoiding them. But what if you genuinely don't know what you're feeling? What if emotions arrive as physical sensations you can't decode, or don't arrive at all because you've spent years learning not to feel?This book explores emotional intelligence not as a skill you lack, but as capacity that gets suppressed when feeling wasn't safe. It examines why some people can't access emotions beyond "fine" or "stressed," how childhood environments teach you which feelings are acceptable, and why emotional numbness is actually intelligent protection. It reframes emotional disconnection not as deficiency, but as adaptation to environments where vulnerability meant danger.Rather than offering emotion wheels or journaling prompts alone, this book helps you understand what blocks emotional awareness in the first place. It explores the difference between suppressing feelings and genuinely not having access to them, why "just feel it" advice fails when your nervous system won't cooperate, and what reconnection looks like beyond forced introspection. It's about permission to not know what you feel yet.For anyone who struggles to identify, express, or trust their emotional experience, this book offers clarity about why feelings remain inaccessible-and compassion for the protection that created the distance.

You're not emotionally unintelligent-you're protecting yourself from feelings that once overwhelmed a system not equipped to handle them.