ISBN-13: 9780881634006 / Angielski / Twarda / 2005 / 298 str.
ISBN-13: 9780881634006 / Angielski / Twarda / 2005 / 298 str.
What do mothers want and need from their parenting partners, their extended families, their friends, colleagues, and communities? And what can mental health professionals do to help them meet their daunting responsibilities in the contemporary world? The talented contributors to What do Mothers Want? address these questions from perspectives that encompass differences in marital status, parental status, gender and sexual orientation. Traversing the biological, psychological, cultural, and economic dimensions of mothering, they provide a compelling brief on the perplexing choices confronting mothers in the contemporary world. Of course mothers most basically want their children to be safe and healthy. But to this end they want and need many things: caring partners, intergenerational and community support, a responsive workplace, public services, and opportunities to share their experiences with other mothers. And they want their feelings and actions as mothers to be understood and accepted by those around them and by society at large. The role of psychotherapy in reaching these latter goals is taken up by many of the contributors. the arrival of a newborn into a couple's (whether hetero- or homosexual) life, and they address new venues of therapeutic assistance, such as brief low-cost therapy for at risk mothers and infants and group interventions to help couples grow into the new role of parental couples. Part I includes What Mothers Want and Need which contains The Psychic Landscape of Mothers by Daniel N. Stern; Loving and Hating Mothers and Daughters: Thoughts on the Role of Their Physicality by Rosemary H. Balsam; What Mothers and Babies Need: The Maternal Third and Its Presence in Clinical Work by Jessica Benjamin; What Fathers Do and How They Do It by James M. Herzog; What Do Mothers and Grandmothers Know and Want? by Sara Ruddick; What is a Mother? Gay and Lesbian Perspectives on Parenting by Jack Drescher, Deborah Glazer, Lee Crespi, and David Schwartz; It's A(p)Parent: New Family Narratives Needed by Adria E. Schwartz; What Does a Mother Want and Need from Her Child's Therapist? by Daniel Gensler and Robin Shafran.Part II includes Women's Bodies: Choices and Dilemmas that contains Too Late: Ambivalence about Motherhood, about Infertility by Allison Rosen; Layers upon Layers: The Complicated Terrain of Eating Disorders and the Mother - Child Relationship by Jean Petrucell and Catherine Stuart.Part III includes Pulling It All Together that covers Listen to My Words: Maternal Life in Colors and Cycles of Time by Jane Lazarre; To Be Partners and Parents: The Challenge for Couples Who Are Parents by Carolyn Pape Cowan and Philip A. Cowan.