The Architecture of Attachment

ISBN-13: 9783565211845 / Angielski / Miękka / 132 str.

Fiona West

Opis

"The Architecture of Attachment" by psychologist Fiona West moves beyond the advice of "does it spark joy?" to answer the deeper question: Why is it so painful to throw things away? West links our physical clutter to our emotional attachment styles (anxious, avoidant, secure).She explains that objects often serve as "transitional objects" for adults-safety blankets that soothe anxiety or physical manifestations of memories we fear losing. The book explores the "endowment effect" (overvaluing what we own) and the fear of scarcity that drives mild hoarding behaviors.West provides a compassionate framework for decluttering that honors the emotional weight of items. She suggests rituals for saying goodbye to sentimental objects and cognitive techniques to separate the memory from the physical item. This book is for anyone who has ever felt guilty about throwing away a birthday card or paralyzed by a garage full of "just in case" items. It's about clearing space in the home to create space in the mind.

Your mess isn't about laziness; it's about love, fear, and memory. A psychological guide to releasing the physical past.