ISBN-13: 9783639103090 / Niemiecki / Miękka / 2009 / 372 str.
ISBN-13: 9783639103090 / Niemiecki / Miękka / 2009 / 372 str.
This book explores the ways in which "ordinary"heterosexual people habitually (and without malice) make homosexualpeople invisible in ordinary communication processes in Japanesecommunities in Japan and the U.S. I raise the question: What are thescenes and communication practices in and through whichhomosexuality becomes invisible or irrelevant to identification ofthe self? First, I explore the communicative style of being ordinary, in and through which heterosexuals habitually enact a complete lackof awareness of homosexuals. Second, while addressing Japanesesilence and indirect and ambiguous communication practices, Iexamine a direct mode of Japanese communication called speaking straightforwardly. Third, I analyze culturalpremises regarding social and emotional selves associated with beingordinary and speaking straightforwardly. Fourth, I describe asilencing form of communication which cultivates gut-level discomfortand fear of homosexuals. Fifth, I analyze Japanese heterosexualmale-centered lovemaking scenes in ero-manga which providepossible sources of misunderstanding between males, females,and male homosexuals.