Secure Attachment: Build Lasting, Healthy Bonds

ISBN-13: 9783565233939 / Angielski / Miękka / 268 str.

Gideon Hart

Opis

Secure attachment isn't about perfect relationships-it's about nervous system safety in connection. This book explores the psychological patterns beneath how we relate to others, examining how early experiences with caregivers shape our capacity for closeness, why intimacy can trigger anxiety or withdrawal, and what happens when our attachment system learned that connection means danger. Through understanding how anxious, avoidant, and disorganized patterns develop, why we repeat relational dynamics that hurt us, and how our bodies signal safety or threat in relationships, this work offers insight into the deeper structures of bonding. Rather than prescribing relationship strategies or promising attachment repair through willpower, it invites readers to explore how their nervous system learned to navigate closeness, what secure attachment actually feels like in the body, and why changing relational patterns requires more than intellectual understanding. For anyone who struggles with intimacy despite wanting connection, or who finds themselves repeating painful relationship dynamics, this book examines how attachment patterns form and what earned security requires.

Secure attachment isn't about never feeling anxious in relationships-it's about your nervous system learning that connection won't destroy you.