Part I: Origins and Consequences He Sure Doesn't Look Depressed. Family Influences. Inhumane Treatment Leads to Inhuman Behavior: The Socialization Process. Impulsive Reactions (What Was I Thinking?). The Masculine Dilemma: "Not too Close, Not too Far Away." Part II: Solutions Empathy for Self and Responsibility for Change. Relation to Other Men. Relation to Other Women. Relations with Family. Fear and Rage in the Lives of Men. Unlearning Helplessness: Lessons from Classic Depression Therapy. The Health Picture.