Learning to Name the Feelings You Were Never Taught to Recognize

ISBN-13: 9783565200719 / Angielski / Miękka / 224 str.

Selene Rothwell

Opis

You're asked how you're feeling, and the answer is always fine, tired, or stressed. Not because it's true, but because you don't have words for the tightness in your chest, the restlessness under your skin, or the heavy fog that settles after certain conversations. You weren't taught to name emotions beyond happy, sad, or angry-so everything else stays blurry, unprocessed, stuck.This book explores emotional literacy not as a skill you should already have, but as something many adults were never given permission to develop. It examines the difference between feeling emotions and recognizing them, the cost of suppressing nuance into simple categories, and the way unidentified feelings leak out as irritability, shutdown, or physical tension. It looks at why some emotions feel forbidden, the belief that naming pain makes it worse, and the relief of finally having language for inner experiences you've carried silently for years.Rather than prescribing positivity or emotional mastery, this book reframes literacy as the foundation for self-understanding. It explores shame, loneliness, disappointment, resentment, tenderness, longing-and the clarity that comes from calling things by their actual names. It examines the difference between intellectualizing feelings and actually feeling them, and the quiet power of saying "I feel grief" instead of "I'm fine."For anyone who numbs before they notice, who struggles to identify emotions beyond surface-level labels, or who senses something beneath the words but can't articulate it-this book offers vocabulary, permission, and the relief of finally understanding the emotional landscape you've been navigating blind.

Emotional literacy doesn't mean controlling your feelings-it means finally having words for the unnamed weight you've been carrying all along.