PART I: LOOKING BACK 1. Were You in an Abusive Relationship?2. Are You Out of Danger Now?3. Self-Esteem4. The Hidden Horror: Sexual Abuse5. How Could You Have Loved an Abuser?6. Abuse of Men by Women, and Abuse in Gay, Lesbian, and Transgender Relationships PART II: NOW 7. Losing Your Partner, Your Dream, Your Life8. When Feelings Overwhelm You9. Signs of Unfinished Healing10. What About the Children?11. The Reactions of Others PART III: LOOKING FORWARD 12. Practical Considerations13. Beginning to Heal14. Who Are You Now?15. The Temptation to Go Back16. Is Your Abuser Still in Your Life? 17. Loving Again