Acknowledgments vi Preface 1 Introduction 3 List of Figures and Tables 9 List of Challenging Behaviors 12 Part One A Different View of the Children in Your Classroom 1. Children in the Round: A Holistic Approach to Understanding Children 16 2. Who Needs a Diagnosis, Anyway? Understanding Behavior as Communication 28 3. A Child's Communication Scaffolding 43 Part Two The Children Communicating in Your Classroom 4. The Child Who Is "Troubling": Loud and Over Reactive 56 5. The Child Who Is "Testing": Loud and Under Reactive 71 6. The Child Who Is "Worrying": Quiet and Over Reactive 85 7. The Child Who Is "Hiding": Quiet and Under Reactive 103 Part Three Pulling Back the Curtain on Specific Communicative Behaviors 8. A Week-by-Week Guide for Behavior Assessment, Prioritization, and Planning 122 9. Distractibility, Daydreaming, and Attention-Related Issues 129 10. Elopement and "Moving Away"–Related Issues 158 11. Excessive Clowning 182 12. Aggression, Bullying, Fighting, Out-of-Control Temper 196 13. "Hyperactivity" 223 14. Difficulty Observing Personal Space and Other Boundary Problems 245 15. Not Speaking 275 16. Toileting Accidents and Toilet-Related Issues 299 17. Upsetting Artwork, Writings, and Play 317 Conclusion: Keeping Your Balance 363 Appendix A: The Troubling Child Worksheet 371 Appendix B: The Testing Child Worksheet 373 Appendix C: The Worrying Child Worksheet 375 Appendix D: The Hiding Child Worksheet 377 Appendix E: Self-Fulfilling Prophecies 379 Bibliography 383 Index 389