"I Want To Be Just Like You": "No You Don't"

ISBN-13: 9780991627004 / Angielski / Miękka / 2014 / 256 str.

Carolyn D. White-Mosley

Opis

This book is written as a guide to the misguided individual, seeking solutions for their unanswered questions. Uniquely compiled of "Lessons Learned," many may find that reading each chapter will provide them a clear understanding of how the definition of 'Love' is often tainted by generational ignorance. Cmo, the name of the main character, is an individual victimized by abuse. Her story is written to shed light on the issues that arise daily, with both men and women. Her life is documented to reflect a lack of compassion and a deficiency in the skill of parenting, and how these two subjects combined can have a major influence on the way a person survives. No, parenting does not come with a manual because we as parents] are not perfect. However, covering up our mistakes or not acknowledging our wrongs in the presence of our children can cause confusion and distrust. "Do as I say, not as I do" is a phrase often spoken by parents, but we fail to understand that our children mimic our actions. Allow your child to see you make mistakes, but also show them how to correct it. Cmo means "see more." You may see yourself in Cmo, and if so, don't allow your actions to continue on, seek help. We, as parents, are not alone; there are individuals suffering from the same mental abuse, social abuse, and physical abuse as Cmo and her family; but never faced the issues head on. Cmo lived the pain and decided 'enough is enough'; and so can you. To that end, the Author's main purpose consists of clarifying the concept "LOVE" to each individual reader. "Learning Our Value Everyday" revisits the idea of self -appreciation. Embrace your flaws, they're the prefect little imperfects that make you unique in all of your ways. Stop trying to be like others, because you don't know the struggles they've gone through; know your worth. The Author's message to all is: "I Thank God for Who I am, Yes I do." Take the negative words, negative vibes, negative thinking, and negative emotions away from the equation, and replace them with positive reinforcements. Begin to walk in peace, love, and confidence, only then would you have learned the progression of self-improvement. 'Self' is the focus of life; life is the focus of love. LOVE: "Learning Our Value Every Day." UNDERSTAND: Self-love. LEARNING: Appreciation, Forgiveness, Compassion.