The bold, inspiring, and empowering new book on the possibility of modern womanhood - helping you to ditch the labels, find your voice, and reclaim your confidence. 'Ashley is a much-needed force.' Jameela Jamil'The book I've been waiting for my whole life.' Bryony Gordon'A smart, brave and unapologetic reclaiming of female power.' Katie Piper OBE-------Bossy. Frigid. Spinster. Sl*t. Mumsy. Milf. Bimbo. The English language has a seemingly infinite number of judgemental and hypocritical words to describe women and their life choices. We can't win, no.