My husband is a "get to the point" kind of guy. He says, "Tell me what the problem is and I'll fix it." I'm the opposite. From my perspective, you can't just fix the problem until you look at the series of events that happened along the way to create the problem. Our viewpoint was argumentative because we thought and processed differently... Our journey of ups and downs was like everyone else's, and if we wanted to stay married and be successful in our marriage, we needed to put something in place that would hold us accountable for our words and actions. My husband, through the guidance of...